EventFul Xmas

XMAS-2011

this weekend was majorly epic. I had the best time of my life with everyone that matters the most. I had church on Saturday, dinner with the church in the afternoon and at night time was my BFF step mothers dinner party. After the dinner party was the after party, all my ppls were chillin sipping it was fun till it ended early 1:30am ugh...oh well the night goes on well the morning cuz i went to sleep when i got home.

Sunday- i woke up and cooked for mom. My hunny wanted to do movies so i met up with him and his friend, we seen ;Mission Impossible which was a really good movie and we seen "the darkest Hour" it was weird but good. after the movies, i went home. There was a dinner party that night so i had to get dolled up:). besides my oufit not fitting everything went smooth. i took a ride with the girls and arrive on time for us to be the life of the party. drinks all night moscato poppin i guess lol. my hunny came and we had soooo much fun. everything went good he left when the party ended and i waited for the clean up crew then went home.

Monday- Mom planned for us to go to Medieval times. the family and my hunny. fun times'

here's sum pics

4 month Post relaxer!!!!

Hello, I know its been a while.

i had decided to put senegalese twist in my hair because of all the new growth i was getting due to my JBCO (yay). my senegalse twist which i did my self are down to my lower bak :). I took them out on Saturday night because it about that time. it really helped me strech my relaxer because idk how i would have been able to do it. I AM 4 MONTHS POST RELAXER!!!!. My hair is finally back to normal after so much treatment and manipulation.
This is what i came up with after my research...
-them out and detangle,
-do a prepoo with conditioner, avocado oil and olive oil. leave it in for 1hr and do my wash with V05
-do either a deep conditioner with oils added or an oil treatment. and leave it over night.
it was a whole lot more but this is what i actually did. It kinda work for me but i need better.

This is what actually happened

i took my braids out. I detangles with a water spray bottle and it worked. then i mixed my pre-poo treatment: olive oil mezani conditioner, and JBCO, i mix it and warm it up and apply to my hair and left it in for about an hour.

rince in out and shampoo my hair with treseme clarifying 3x i towel dried my hair and mix my deep conditioner; treseme conditionner, mezani moisture, olive oil, avocado oil, and JBCO i warmed it up and apply to my towel dried hair and this is where it got real for me.....
My whole head was knotted, i let it sit for an hour and rinsed it out but it had already done damage so i had to sit there and detangle and watch my hair come out my scalp.
i apple coconut oil and JBCO.

Right now
my hair is nice and moisturized i went and got cream of nature moisturizer with argan oil, i had a bread out every two night i moisture and seal:)

hope this can help you.
One only learn by doing! so Do!

Its ok to dream right...

Every girl crave for one thing. yes it tru we all different and crazy in our own way but when it comes down to it we all crave for one thing in life. we do everything we do, for that goal. A FAIRY TALE, fairy tale with the guy of our dreams, all white wedding, whith daddy walking us down the ailes and giving our hand in marriage to that special guy that would be from now on in charge of making sure we are allright. Dreamy huh? As everyday goes by we work on our fairy tale, we dream, we plan, we draw. in fact everything is all planned all we need is McDreamy our Prince.

My McDreamy-
 i want him tall and handsome. i want him to scoop me off my feet prove to me that he is the exeption. care for me like i will deeply care for him. surprise me spontaneously cuz i love surprises. Look in my eyes and let me know that everything im doing is working after all a girl dresses to look good in their mans eyes. i wanna be appreciated like Adam appreciated Eve- God's gift to him.

Dreaming....

Shoes-Im an Addict

sooo just like every other girl. I LOVE SHOES!! i feel like im am addicted, its crazy that i would be having a bad day at work and all i have to do is look up some banging shoes on the internet and im good.
so, im tired of goin around shopping for shoes, if the price are decent then the shoes are bad or the shoes are just over priced. soo i found this website justfab.com their shoes are banging. my first time on it they gave me 50% percent off and of course the addict that i am, i took the offer and ordered these

i waited for about a week before they came. OMG they the banginest shoes i ever seen but unfortunately they were too small. the web runs small in sizes so i needed a 9 instead of an 8 1/2, my toes were hangin off lol. so i stalked to website because aparently they were " out of stock" so a week later i got them to order it for me and they been shipped as of yesterday!!! i cant wait to wear the hell out of them cuz of course i will be the only one with them on so WHY NOT!!

My hair update

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Soooo it beeen a while since i have blogged...missed me??
soo last week i had my fresh doobie for $15. i got a deep conditionner, a trim (finally) and my roller set. my hair came out bangin. this week is the week after wash week so i did a cowash (conditionner wash) on tuesday. i air dried my hair because it good to avoid heat on the hair. so i let it air dry so now my hair is up in a bun. today is another wash day i will be goin to the doobie spot for a $10 doobie. Hopefully i make it because i have so much to do today.
Its been 4weeks since my last perm im on a journey  to go through at least 3mnts without the perm. my hair is growing crazy which is good. in the  next two weeks i should have braids in my hair cuz my new growth are def coming in fast thanks to my JBCO

[Pre-Poo] week2 of my hair journey

While researching to modify my hair journey, i ran into some weird words like "pre-poo"and "cowash". As i did more research i find out pre-poo is pre-shampoo and cowash is conditioning wash.
--Now this is the week 2 of my hair journey yay!!! yesterday was a wash day and it is recommend to do a pre-poo the night before every wash. you can pre-poo over night or for 30 min to an hr b4 your wash. afterwork i did my pre-poo....

the products i used :
treseme conditionner
doo gro growth oil
Jamaican black castor oil (JBCO)
i mixed all them in one container and heat it up and applied to my hair put a shower cap and let it marinate for an hr in my hair follicles.
Now to washing...
i washed my hair. and deep condition for 45 min without heat.
i then let my hair air dry and then i moisture and sealed and grease my scalp with JBCO
the result:
my hair never felt so healthy so quick.
Here's more info...for you!
What does it mean to pre-poo?
It in essence is a pre-wash deep treatment, either overnight or for a an hour or more, under heat or without heat, on dry dirty hair. Prior to your shampoo/conditioner wash, you apply either a set of oils, or a conditioning blend (like light cheapie conditoner mixed with some oils and honey) to your hair, to allow it to loosen some and in the hopes of it becoming even softer when your whole wash/condition process is done.


Why pre-pooing is beneficial?
When you pre-poo you give dried, fried, “dead” hair a chance to revitalize it’s self. You allow the hair to get extra moisture. The castor oil will add a ton of neccessary moisture to dry hair, and after your first co-wash it will leave your hair still feeling moist.

It also adds strength to the hair by re-enforcing what’s needed..moisture. For curly, kinky, wavy hair types, it gives the hair that needed shine, and allow its to be supple.

ENJOY!!!

5steps to Long Hair

5 Easy Steps To Longer Healthier Relaxed Hair

Learn how to take care of your relaxed hair for optimum growth

Here are 5 easy ways to get your chemically relaxed hair to grow and grow!
1. Deep Conditioning Treatments – This is key in the health of your relaxed hair. Moisture promotes elasticity which is important in making the hair resilient to damage. Relaxed hair loves deep conditioning treatments. A deep conditioner is any good natural conditioner left on for 20-30 minutes (even overnight for some). It is always best to use heat with a deep conditioner. Heat makes the hair shaft swell up hence it absorbs more moisture. Heat can be added with a hair steamer, hooded dryer (with a plastic heat cap) or even with a warm towel tied around the head. The deep conditioning treatment should be rinsed well from the hair and always end with a cold water rinse. The cold water makes the hair cuticle close keeping all that lovely moisture inside the shaft.

2. ‘Seal’ the moisture in – The most common way to do this is with oils. A light natural oil used sparingly concentrating on the ends will keep the hair soft and moisturized all day. The principle behind this is that oil molecules are larger that water molecules. The oil molecules coat the shaft of the hair after the deep conditioning treatment hence locking the water molecules inside. A good natural oil that can be used for sealing is coconut oil. Never use petroleum products on the hair and never use oils if you are going to heat-style your hair afterwards. When using heat you should use a silicone based heat protecting serum that will do the same thing by both coating the hair shaft to keep moisture in and absorb most of the heat from your heat tools.

3. Daily moisture – After a long day, it is not uncommon for relaxed hair to feel a bit dry. If you deep condition and seal your hair regularly you may be able to keep your hair moisturized for days at a time but like anything left out in the elements, after a while it will lose some of its moisture. It is a good habit to get into moisturizing your hair daily. It a quick painless process! All you need is a good oil-free hair lotion (The first ingredient must be water). A coin-sized amount is enough for shoulder length hair, a touch more for longer tresses. Follow this on with a few drops of your oil to seal and this should keep your hair soft for the next 24 hours if not longer. No need to be concerned that your lovely new flat ironing job will be ruined by adding a water-based product to it. Remember, you only need a small amount which is unlikely to affect your style and you may wrap your hair afterwards to keep it straight and bouncy. You may also opt to apply the moisturizer only to the ends of the hair as this is the oldest part or the hair and tends to get drier faster.

4. Protein Treatments – Protein is just as important to hair as moisture is. All hair is made up of protein so when hair becomes damaged by heat tools or hair is over-moisturized; a deep protein treatment can work wonders. Protein will fill in the gaps or cracks in the hair shaft hence strengthening the structure. Some good protein treatments will even stop breakage immediately! These treatments are only required when serious breakage is occurring or when breakage is foreseen e.g. getting a chemical service, you can get the protein treatment to prevent any breakage after the service. If the hair is already in a good state then an occasional protein treatment helps give the hair the added strength it needs. You can buy light protein shampoos or conditioners or raid the kitchen and crack an egg into your usual conditioner for that added bit of protein!

5. Using the correct tools for your hair – Relaxed hair tends to be very fragile when wet. You should never brush or use a small tooth comb on your hair. Only use a wide tooth comb to detangle or comb products through. It is best to avoid manipulating the hair too much until it is mostly dry. Even when the hair is dry use a brush sparingly opting rather for your trusty wide tooth comb for styling purposes. Many are now adept at finger styling and avoid using a comb altogether! Heat tools should also be avoided where possible. Relaxed hair can be straightened quite easily by wrapping when wet and letting it air dry overnight. Alternatively a good roller set will give you straight silky results without excessive heat. If a flat iron must be used, make sure it has a temperature control and use the lowest temperature at which you can get good results. If you use a straightening balm or serum on the hair, very little heat is required to smooth out the hair.
With these tips in a few short months you are sure to move your hair to heights never expected. Hair grows from 6-10 inches per year. Take regular quarterly pictures of your progress to show you how much the health and length of your hair has increased. Anyone can have waist length hair. Why shouldn’t it be you?

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Loose yourself? and love her?...

Last week i posted my second blog and it was about "Forgetting about your self and focus on your partner" and some one commented saying

"If being with someone requires you to forgetting about yourself and focus on your partner, then doesn't that make you unhappy at the end? "

You cant be your complete self and loving and being insync with someone else, somethings has to be change i guess thats why some people say you have to loose yourself to love better. how can you expect to be the same person you were because and still try to deal with another personality. how can you still act out with your boys and come home to your girl later and act the same. how can you wild-out with your girls and act the same with your man. When you'r involved with someone, it means you willing to compromise your characteristics to make it work. Adam lost his rib to get Eve.you loose yourself or part of you to become one with the one you love. its no longer about you, its about both of you.

-*im not an expert just optimistic*-



some quotes and bible verses. Hope you all enjoy and apply them to your [love] life...

Lauryn hill- Loose your self
the lyrics to this chorus are" i had to loose myfelf so i can love you better"

Ephesians 5:25
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her. (NIV)

Ephesians 5:33
However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband. (NIV)

Proverbs 10:12
Hatred stirs up dissension, but love covers over all wrongs. (NIV)

Proverbs 15:17
A bowl of vegetables with someone you love is better than steak with someone you hate. (NLT)

 Song of Solomon 2:16
My lover is mine, and I am his. (NLT)

Your my goal too hun,

   The woman is always known to be overly-sensitive, demanding and needy. but in reality we just know what we want and we doing our best to get it. The only valid complaint is the fact that we always want it all. we have this picture in our head and we want it to play out exactly the way we see it. So yes we put in work for it, we try to change to guys or mold them some of us would say. We try to "help" them, starting with the outside and working our way in, just so we can get that perfect person.Its not that they don't love you some women just want that extra. But that sucks because in the end we always the ones loosing, no matter how much work we put in. Some may say its our fault because we trying so hard to change a person when its not possible. Or we doing too much, we care to much. But think about it, we have goals right? we allowed to plan our future the way we want right because isn't that the purpose of goals, to know the who, what, when, where of our future. We work to in order to gain experience for our future in order to make money and be happy. So why do we have to alter the little things about our dream guy n have to put up wit the negativity and "hope" for happiness. Why do women got judge because we know what we want and trying to achieve that goal?? Isn't like working at different jobs and gaining experience, but instead of kissing all these frogs to get our prince, we help that lost frog to be our prince.... No?
I'm just saying....

-i dnt agree with changing a man, im all for accepting the person as they are but in terms of goals and being happy; why cant everyone get what they want??

On our side...

Being with someone is the hardest things you could even done in your life. It requires you forgetting about your self and focusing on that person. Its no longer about you and it all becomes you "US". God knew what he was doin when he gave Adam Eve. Eve was He's all, he care and listened to her, it wasn about him anymore it became about her, hence the fruit story from the bible. Even though being with some one is hard, the smiles make it all worth it. knowing that you have a life partner, who always on your side no matter what is a great feeling. its great that you dont have to deal with all your fears alone, they are there for you every step of the way.

"Gratitude"

Thankful for relaxation, complication,
Hivination and irritation
Succlusion, confusion are my impurities
And securities
Cause I know it`s god just perfecting me
That`s why I today I take my life as it come

-India Arie

the beginning....

8/29/30

on this day i started my hair journey.

my hair grows and stops on my shoulder so my goal is to get bsl (bra strap lengh) I'm not sure how long is going to take but I'm determine at least for now.

the 29th on Monday

i did a relaxer ( cream of nature with argan oil)- OMG this relaxer is bangin. it makes your hair nice and soft i def recommend it.

after my relaxer i did a deep conditioner, rinse, blow dry. then i moisture and seal my hair, pinned curled it for a curly style.

the products i used are:

cream and nature

JBCO and doogro oil
pantene moisturizer.